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Blinded

I remember a time my heart used to skip from the whisper of your voice Now my heart won’t flutter from the static produced out your mouth I wish I could rewind the hands of time I really wanted to be your bride You told me to wait Put my love on pause You left me sore to my core   I tried to hide my emotions with a smile Like a heavy coat of foundation Tears glide over my cheeks Silently, I cried myself to sleep   Dreams of your arms around me Felt terrible  My heart was stoned Emancipated My pain just wouldn't go away   I lusted you You left me   My mind accepted My heart rejected My flesh waddled in anger I was blinded by lies   I wish I could rewind the hands of time   Blinded  

Children's Corner

Children's literature is a safe and fun way to encourage a child's imagination, to improve a child's communication skills, and build a child's interpersonal skills. Below are few books I read to my children in their growing years. What are your favorite children's books?    Always movin' On: The Life of Langston Hughes    Baby Signs My Daddy Longlegs  Somebody's Dog  The Adventures of Peter Cottontail Who's A pest   

Meeting A Man

FAQ: When is the right time to meet a man when child(ren) are involved?  Honestly, the best answer I can muster, when you value yourself enough to know you are a total package .  FAQ: Am I a total package without the biological parent present? Yes, you have children by ANOTHER man, but the dynamics of that relationship did not work and it is unrepairable.  FAQ: What to do when I am ready to date? So, here you are seeking a companion who is man enough to handle what your past relationship could not. Lets be frank. That strain relationship fell strain for a reason rather the relationship was on the brink before children or the weight of responsibility of children was the straw that broke the camel's back, your past relationship failed. As a result, you do not have to stay single. Conception of children by a man does not mandate your stay. However, a lesson should had been learnt and a vow of responsibility should be made. FAQ: Why do structure of relationships matter? Just ...

Over Labels

As single moms we have to do what we have to do in every aspect of our lives to generate income and have a healthy social life to sustain our mental strengths in reference to juggle bills, babies, employment, and people. All of which will exhaust even the professional organizer. Sometimes, the human body will overload or overwhelm. My experience as a single mom vary from a high of desire to be out on the town to no desire to be bothered at all. Single motherhood is a give and take commitment to empower and educate. However, I acquired the knowledge to balance my energy so that it is equal between myself and the world to prevent the feel of burnout when it is time to focus on what matters.  Accept the reality of motherhood- the world will mold itself. Motherhood does not come with a manual! The beginning phase of motherhood will be rough. If you have love ones to navigate motherhood with you, trust me you are blessed! Join a social group, have play dates, girl's night in or out, an...

Fruits and Veggies of Life

 M y children are nearly at their pre-teen stages of life- while, the gifts of motherhood are abundant I'm blessed with the opportunity to witness my children grow according to  foundations I had instilled. From a mother's point of view, appropriate attention of care:  How to love How to care for oneself How to articulate their feelings  How to communicate  How to get through one day to the next  My motherhood has been quite a journey as it has required me to grow as a person. My circle of friends changed because some friends did not have children. My world became demanding. When I had children it was no longer just about me. I'll admit, the ability to care for two small children at the age of 21 made me sad not because I had children, but because of what surrounded the relationship my children was conceived. I wasn't able to run off with my friends as I once did. I wasn't able to have conversations without babies crying in the background. Sometime...

Welcome Aboard

Welcome to MommyNMeTours Blog where the blogging experience is to promote a community of mothers in network. I hope MommyNMeTours bring comfort to you in your despair of the ever-changing world of motherhood that consist of bloopers and gains. This blog will offer short activity, passive income resources, poetry, reader's digest for children and adults, open dialog, and online sells.  Feel free to comment to postings. Feel free to ask questions. Feel free to post in relevance.